Saturday, December 15, 2007

LOVE AND DATING

LOVE AND DATING

What is LOVE? Which age people get fall in love? If anybody give this answer that means that person in love. LOVE.....probably the most emotionally charged word in any language! Used to describe everything from an infant's smile when it sees its mother to the idealized ecstasy of a religious conversion, "LOVE" has been the inspiration for a wide range of human actions from the creation of art and poetry to the destructive act of jealous murder. It is the "holy grail" of every individual, male or female; and we seek it from the moment of our birth to our last breath. In this section, we will explore such topics as the meaning of "love," how to recognize it, how to incubate and fan its flames, and how to preserve it in long-term relationships To set the stage for this most dramatic of subjects, we define "love" as those positive feelings of happiness and contentment that individuals experience when they think of, or are in the presence of, the object of their love. There is a slogan on love” LOVE NIETHER BE CREATE NOR BE DISTROY ITS COMES FROM HEART” There are also negative emotions associated with love, such as jealousy, possessiveness and obsession, and we aspire to illuminate their origin as well as help you understand and gain control over them. Love, the strongest and deepest element in all life, the harbinger of hope, of joy, of ecstasy; love, the deifier of all laws, of all conventions; love, the freest, the most powerful molder of human destiny. Dating basically, the process of getting to know another person for the purpose of establishing a relationship. The relationship being sought may be as short as a single evening or as long as a lifetime, but the process is the same? There is the initial period of attraction, when the participants catch the attention and interest of a potential partner.

Then there is a period of sharing experiences, conversation and activities with the goal of determining whether the potential partner fits into the relationship that each has in mind. Finally, there is the proposal for establishing the relationship (or the decision not to make such a proposal) and its acceptance or rejection. For most people, dating is a necessary precursor for both sex and love, and thus dating has supreme importance in human life, as it is the gateway to both emotional happiness and physical pleasure. The purpose of this section is to make that gateway an easy to negotiate portal, and one that delivers on its promise to weed out unsuitable suitors and to guide its participants into meaningful and satisfying relationships. Unfortunately, dating today has become dominated by fear--fear of rejection, fear of disappointment, and fear of competition are the most common components of the emotions most people feel when they think of dating. Indeed, a survey of young women in India whose parents still chose their mates for them (as used to be common in Western society as well), and whose marriages are often arranged before the couple even get to know each other, found that a majority of these young brides actually endorsed this practice, because it avoided the anxiety and pitfalls of dating and because it led to more suitable matches than the less mature and inexperienced women could find for themselves. Such solutions to the fears of dating are not likely to be accepted in Western culture, however, as "independence" is one of the mantras of our young, and because we prefer to make our own mistakes. So for us, the challenge of dating is to overcome our fears and to find a road map to the relationship which matches our mutual desires. Love and dating are the same track because without love you can not go with anyone else. There is no any necessary that we can go with girl and boy. We can go with our mother, sister and friends. Now ever days online dating is also happened like if some one can’t meet their partner then they do online dating. We always remember our first love, our first date, first kiss and even the date also when anyone meet their love one. So love and date are not different they both are incomplete without each other.